Go find the love you

deserve!

"When I was 18 I had no clue what I wanted, which is why I didn't find the right person", a friend confided to me recently.

"When I was 25 I knew exactly what I wanted, maybe that's why I had so much trouble matching up to the exact specs." He laughed.

"Finally, when I hit 30 I opened my eyes to life's little surprises.

And there she was."

If you want to find true love and true compatibility, it helps to know what you want in a soulmate. But don't turn it into a set of hard and fast "rules". You might match the specs, but it could take the love and spontaneity out of the relationship.

Love, after all, is about acceptance. It's about forgiving faults and frailties. It's about "letting go" and learning to enjoy your differences.

Many people equate a dating website with a "Match-making Mall".
You walk in with a shopping list and a credit card. and walk out with the "perfect" match.

Well, nothing could be farther from the truth!

Before you set out to find "the one" on websites with millions of profiles, accept that "luck" is just a small part of the equation.

Make room for love in your heart. You'll have a hard time staying single!